My last e-mail gave a summary through Thursday so that is where I am going to start with this one. Friday was a break away from the "traditional" missions trip to help the Hernandez family move. What can I say about moving? It was nice to be able to help them unload furniture and decide where to put everything but really it was a straight service day. It was great to see their excitement over the new house and get them out of the one with mold and mildew on the walls. In the end, I think our time and discussion with the Hernandez family (and some of the other missionaries we met) was our biggest takeaway from the trip. Being able to experience what long-term missionaries do and struggle with in another culture was enlightening and inspiring for all of us.
Friday evening we provided a distraction from the moving to experience a professional soccer game. WOW. Those fans are crazy. When their team scored, mobs of them would run straight towards the field and several would climb the fence to celebrate. They love their soccer in Paraguay and it showed - just about every man, woman, and child have a team they support. We bought Sydney a team jersey to wear and when she was wearing it at a playground one day, some other kids would not let her on some structures because it wasn't their team. Luckily the Hernandez kids were there and told off the others. Sydney had no idea what was even going on.
Sunday was a recovery day for us; Alise and Alicia were both getting over being sick and Fernando was still fighting off a fever. We ended up letting him get some sleep while the rest of us spent the day at the Hernandez household. It actually turned out to be positive to have Fernando out of the picture for a day because we had some great conversations and bonding time with Alicia. Angel Hernandez treated us to a bbq the way Paraguayans do it - slow and with lots of discussion. We pretty much sat around the grill and shared. It is something I have struggled with in America, it feels like even a leisure activity like cooking on the grill is agenda and production based. When I am cooking at home I am focused on grilling or the next task instead of just taking time to sit and talk. So much about Paraguay is about social time and building relationships. Instead of staring at the TV or cell phones, people are sitting around and socializing as they drink beer or wine (passing around the same glass) or sipping mate' (which is their version of tea) which is also one cup passed around.
Sadly, Tuesday was our last day in Paraguay, we packed our stuff up and then went to an outdoor market to buy a few gifts. Tuesday night we took the Hernandez family to a really nice dinner in town. The restaurant was a Brazilian "Churrascaria" - which is essentially several types and cuts of meat. Words cannot do it justice so if you ever have the opportunity, check one out.
Overall, it was not the type of short term missions trip you normally hear about in church, but it gave us all such insight on what it means to be a long term missionary. It was more about serving and supporting the people there in their ministry. There were no "evangelistic crusades" with hundreds of people giving their lives to Christ and there were no construction projects. However, we think this type of short trip was more productive in the long run - both for those we met and for our family. While there were definite challenges to bringing the kids, we are so glad we took them with us. Sydney asked a lot of questions about the country and the culture and they were able to experience ministry from the "giving" perspective instead of just "receiving." In the end, that was one of our major goals.